I know that I have a strong personality that really annoys some people-and for years I tried to be someone that would be who everyone wanted-only to realize that it wasn't working.

I've come to the conclusion that the best way to deal with people is to be straight up honest-although at times it can be uncomfortable. To me, I want to be with someone that I can trust, who will love me enough to be honest with me. I in turn, will be that kind of friend.

I don't understand the whole notion of sweeping things under a rug-for it to later have ramifications. I guess I am like my horoscope sign says I am-a bull! (no I don't follow astrology, just have found it humorous that I am labeled a bull, because at times it's fitting!)

I go into everything head strong ready to conquer anything I set my mind to! I'm type A-I get the job done!! I'm chuckling to myself at this moment, thinking of everyone who may freak out on my type!! I know, I know-please don't send me hate mail-God's still working on me!

I am one of those who hates tension! When I was young I begged to be spanked and not punished-because I wanted it over! Sending me to my room meant I didn't know where I stood with the one I had offended! I like resolve-not conflict. I've realized that sometimes you have to have confrontation to get to the resolve and peace. I guess that's why I'm so quick to get to the point!

Please don't misunderstand my aggresiveness for being a bully. The truth is I'm passionate about people! I love people and I love relationships! I think the best relationships are those where true honesty is. I love very deeply, and love making friends! I love the way people light up when you greet them with a smile! I love making people feel welcome, no matter where I am! My kids say I make friends everywhere I go-I can't help it-I love people!

God has been so good to place people in my life who are the exact opposite, so that I can learn to balance this head strong self! It's so nice of God to give us children who are just like us to see things about ourselves that aren't so pleasant!


So, my thoughts today are, that while sometimes dealing with things and getting them out in the open can cause a lot of emotion, I think in the end, it can open up a dialogue-that can bring resolve and an even closer relationship with those you love.

Proverbs 19:20 Listen to advice and accept correction, and in the end you will be wise.